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Perseverance is the key to building grit. There is no doubt that kids who develop it will lead happier and more productive lives than those who don’t. Listed below are few “grit builders” with corresponding “grit stealers.”

Grit Builders and Grit Stealers
Teaching perseverance isn’t complicated. It requires a willingness to allow kids to experience healthy challenges as they grow. It also requires that we let them see that they have what it takes to cope with life’s challenges.

Social and Emotional Skills Form the Foundation of Success in Life

Social and emotional skills form the foundation of success in life. Why such a bold statement? Think about it—how important is self-control, patience, perseverance, decision-making, and the ability to resolve conflicts peacefully? How crucial is the ability to manage anxiety, anger, discouragement, and other uncomfortable emotions? How essential are the skills required to make and keep friends? Is learning how to empathize important?
All of us learn most of these very important skills through what we call the “Three Es” of Love and Logic—Example, Experience, and Empathy.
Example 
Modeling is one of the most powerful tools for teaching social and emotional coping skills. A powerful form of modeling takes place when our kids overhear us talking about our values. Young people are almost always more interested in what they overhear than what we provide in the form of a lecture. Kids can learn great lessons about coping with tough emotions, temptations, and conflicts by overhearing us verbalize positive self-talk.
Experience 
Mistakes are priceless learning opportunities. When we err and experience not-so-pleasant results, we learn the importance of making better choices in the future. Learning self-control, empathy for others, decision-making, and other valuable social and emotional skills requires some humbling experiences and plenty of encouraging ones also.
Great parents and educators provide emotional support while allowing kids to blow it when the price tag is small. Few things build a greater sense of optimism and confidence than experiencing setbacks and overcoming them.
Empathy teaches empathy. When children see us using it with others, and experience it directly from us, they are far more likely to pass it on. Social and emotional success requires that children learn how to demonstrate empathy toward others as well as toward themselves.

For more tips on teaching social and emotional skills at home and at school, join me at one of my one-day conferences near you. If you’re a parent, read Parenting for Success. If you’re an educator, take a look at our newly revised classic, Teaching with Love and Logic.


Our behavior expectations at Monument are found in every classroom and throughout the building. Students are taught the expectations at the beginning of the year by their teachers and again throughout the year. By teaching the expectations and reminding them every day of the commitment we all have to those expectations, students experience success each day. We reinforce students for their positive choices by verbally commending them, giving them Monument Money which can be redeemed for extra privileges, and the Student of the Month positive recognition assemblies held every month. Our teachers, staff, and parents work together for our fabulous students.

Monument PBIS Team

All Behavior is Chosen to Align with these Three Personal Standards

1. Be Respectful

2. Make Good Decisions

3. Solve Problems

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Academic Progress and Expectations

The state under the direction of the federal government is changing the evaluation system of educators and also requiring action when a school is underperforming.  Lists have been published by the state that identify schools that are struggling based on the MSP.  Monument is on one of those lists along with most of the schools in our district.  We have a district plan to help our students succeed that we are currently implementing. 

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As those of you who have been in the district for some time are aware, our Kindergarten through fifth grade has been doing standards based grading for a few years.  The following criteria is used to measure student learning:  

Monument Elementary

                 1400 13th Ave. SW
                 Quincy, WA 98848

                 Phone:  509-787-9826
                 Fax:      509-787-8974

     Hours:      Mon:           9:30-3:00
                      Tues-Fri:     8:15-3:00

Principal: Mr. Phillip Averill

Ms. Maxine Marshall
Administrative Assistant, Principal

Mrs. Alejandra Ramos
Attendance Secretary

Mrs. Amayrany Zepeda
Parent Liaison

Mrs. Dianne Stewart
Counselor

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